A guided practice date that helps you feel steady, present, and yourself.
No pressure. No performance. Just a safe space to see how you show up and what naturally opens connection for you.
First Door Sessions
The First Door Session is a comfortable, real-feeling practice date over Zoom.
You do not need to prepare anything. Just show up as you are.
We begin with an easy, natural conversation that feels like a first date with someone warm and grounded. You get the chance to experience connection without the pressure of impressing or performing.
Afterward, I offer gentle reflections on what I noticed, including the signals you naturally send, the moments that open connection, and the small shifts that help early dates feel more mutual and comfortable.
What this session is
You are re-entering dating and want to feel more confident.
You worry about how you come across on early dates.
You tend to overthink first impressions.
You want feedback that is gentle and practical.
You want a real-feeling date experience in a safe environment.
This session is perfect for you if
What You’ll Take Away
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Real-Time Behavior Reflections
A warm, grounded summary of the behaviors that showed up naturally in the conversation, including your pacing, tone, presence, and the subtle signals you sent without trying.
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Bridge Moment Insight
A simple observation of one or two small “bridge moments” you naturally created during the date or hesitated to create. These micro-moments show how you ease into conversation.
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Simple Next-Date Adjustments
Two or three easy, grounded suggestions you can use right away on your next real date to feel more steady, communicate more clearly, and guide the interaction in a way that feels mutual.
Note: All feedback in the First Door Session is shared verbally during our time together.
If you want something written to revisit later, see the optional First Door Review.
Logistics
Duration
60 minutes
(About 40 to 45 minutes of practice conversation and 10 to 15 minutes of verbal feedback.)
Location
Zoom. You’ll receive a link right after booking.
Preparation
No prep required. Just show up as yourself.
Recording
This session is not recorded.
Written feedback is not included, but you are welcome to take notes.
If you want something you can revisit, the optional First Door Review add-on includes a written summary.
Written Feedback
Not included in the First Door Session.
Optional written review available as an add-on.
Price
$197
Optional Add-On: First Door Review
$57
If you want something you can revisit after the session, the First Door Review gives you a short written summary of your practice date. You’ll receive a warm, clear reflection of what stood out, the subtle cues you sent, and two or three small adjustments to try on your next real date.
The First Door Session includes verbal feedback only. This add-on provides written notes.
What comes after the First Door Session?
If you want to continue building clarity or confidence after this session, here are two options you can explore whenever you’re ready:
• Dating Patterns Session
A deeper look at the patterns that shape your dating experience, with a personalized written reflection.
• Bearings Room Membership
Ongoing support with bi-weekly clarity calls and short lessons to help you stay grounded as you date.
(These are optional next steps — your First Door Session stands on its own.)
